<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Seyi Albert's Blog]]></title><description><![CDATA[I think about how people create, how systems enable them to create, & how societies can be better designed. 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Albert]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[seyi@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[seyi@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Seyi Albert]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[It’s Ọ̀mọ̀wé Apathy, not Olódo Uprising.]]></title><description><![CDATA[We cannot complain about the culture while refusing to participate in it.]]></description><link>https://salbxt.com/p/its-omowe-apathy-not-olodo-uprising</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://salbxt.com/p/its-omowe-apathy-not-olodo-uprising</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Seyi Albert]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2026 17:47:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!qUcc!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6ca538cc-2824-4da3-a3cb-ed15d9607baf_1408x768.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div 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Intelligent content exists, but it isn&#8217;t being produced, distributed or supported at the scale required to shape mainstream culture. If we want better culture, we have to </span><strong><span>stop complaining about what wins attention and start competing for it.</span></strong></p><div><hr></div><p><mark data-color="#fff2cc" style="background-color: rgb(255, 242, 204); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Definitions: </mark></p><p><mark data-color="#fff2cc" style="background-color: rgb(255, 242, 204); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Ol&#243;do (</mark><em><mark data-color="#fff2cc" style="background-color: rgb(255, 242, 204); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">oh-low-dow</mark></em><mark data-color="#fff2cc" style="background-color: rgb(255, 242, 204); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">) is a Yoruba word directly translating to &#8220;someone who owns/scores zeros&#8221;, essentially meaning a dullard, but functionally, someone who is incurious and contemptuous of learning.</mark></p><p><mark data-color="#fff2cc" style="background-color: rgb(255, 242, 204); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">&#7885;&#768;m&#7885;&#768;w&#233; <span>(</span></mark><em><mark data-color="#fff2cc" style="background-color: rgb(255, 242, 204); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><span>ore-more-way</span></mark></em><mark data-color="#fff2cc" style="background-color: rgb(255, 242, 204); color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><span>) is Yoruba for &#8216;the one who knows books&#8217;, meaning an intellectual, or a learned person.</span></mark></p><p><span>The first time the phrase &#8220;Ol</span>&#243;do<span> Uprising&#8221; was coined, as far as I can trace, was on the 31st of August 2025 by Twitter/X user </span><a href="https://x.com/Chi_deera/status/1962172480937750782"><span>@Chi_deera</span></a><span>. </span></p><p><span>However, the phrase found a new life and became popular when Nigerian rapper </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/iam_ycee"><span>YCee</span></a><span> used the term on the </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZ-89SroxDt/"><span>Afropolitan Podcast</span></a><span> in late June 2026. His argument, summarily, was that Nigerian society is no longer celebrating academic excellence, that fewer young people want to go to school, and that the culture has shifted beyond &#8220;Yahoo culture&#8221; (glorification of internet fraud) into what he called &#8220;Peller culture&#8221;: a culture that rewards outrageous, unintelligent or performative ignorance with massive views, clout and money.</span></p><p><span>In essence, &#8220;Olodo Uprising&#8221; has become a publicly understood term for the perceived surge of anti-intellectualism.</span></p><p><span>Is there merit to the claim?</span></p><p><span>I&#8217;d say yes, and no.</span></p><p><span>Yes, slapstick entertainment, creator culture and broad social commentary are truly mainstream in Nigeria.</span></p><p><span>No, because &#8220;Ol</span>&#243;do<span> Uprising&#8221; is largely a symptom of two deeper problems: the decay of the Nigerian educational system, and the apathy of the educated class towards occupying and shaping the spaces where mainstream culture, entertainment and public opinion are produced.</span></p><p><span>When the educational system goes bad, it is not the fault of the uneducated that there is limited access to quality education. In fact, ignorance and anti-intellectualism are natural consequences of a failing educational system. Fixing that is generational work, and it must be done. But it is not the only work available to us today. The second problem is much more immediate.</span></p><p><span>When the educated fail to participate in or shape public culture in major ways, that is an open void for anyone to fill.</span></p><p><span>So who exactly do we expect to fill the void?</span></p><p><span>When something goes bad, the people who can recognise the problem must step in to fix it, not merely bemoan or comment about it. Fixing is insistent and perpetual advocacy. Fixing is building alternatives, participating, organising, producing, funding, teaching, publishing, and COMPETING.</span></p><p><span>The general excuse that &#8220;Nigerians don&#8217;t respond to intellectual content&#8221; is a flat-out fallacy. Time and time again, we&#8217;ve seen intellectual content go viral and receive the appreciation it deserves when it is presented in formats that respect the sensibilities and leverage the sentiments of its audience. It&#8217;s called cultural fluency.</span></p><p><span>The likes of </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aproko_doctor"><span>Aproko Doctor</span></a><span>, </span><a href="https://www.instagram.com/healthertainer"><span>Healthertainer</span></a><span> </span>and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theelizabethadewale">Elizabeth Adewale</a> find relatable and comical formats to inform the public on various health matters. <a href="https://www.instagram.com/isaidwhatisaidpod">ISWIS podcast</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/zikokomag">Zikoko</a> are contributing immensely to youth culture, and &#8216;Comrade&#8217; <a href="https://x.com/NaijaFlyingDr">Dr Ola Brown</a> shares complex business and investment ideas in easily digestible formats.</p><p><span>The audience is not necessarily rejecting intelligence. It is rejecting boring delivery.</span></p><p><span>But even that is half the story.</span></p><p><span>There is a significant minority of people already creating the kind of intelligent, thoughtful and culturally relevant content we claim to want more of. The problem is that they are often doing so with a fraction of the volume, distribution, and audience support of the content we complain about.</span></p><p><span>If there are 10,000 creators producing entertaining slapstick content and a few hundred producing intelligent content, of course the former will feel more ubiquitous. That doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean Nigerians have rejected intelligence. It means there is simply far more of one thing competing for their attention. It is a volume game, and volume eventually becomes visibility. Visibility becomes cultural familiarity, and cultural familiarity becomes influence.</span></p><p><span>And volume alone is still not enough. Content does not distribute itself; audiences carry it. The ones we call &#8220;Ol</span>&#243;do<span>s&#8221; understand this instinctively. They are perpetually on TikTok &#8216;gifting&#8217; their creators in small to big ways, sharing their videos, defending them in comment sections, and showing up at their events. They behave like stakeholders in their creators&#8217; success. Meanwhile, the people who claim to want more intelligent culture will watch a brilliant piece of work, nod approvingly, and move on without so much as a repost. No subscription, no share, no recommendation, no funding. We treat appreciation as a private act when it needs to be a public one. We cannot complain about the dominance of one kind of content while refusing to give the alternative an audience.</span></p><p><span>Here is the real problem: the educated class has shown remarkably little ambition to shape and push what millions of Nigerians think, watch, read, listen to or aspire towards. Our problem is more &#7885;&#768;m&#7885;&#768;w&#233; apathy than it is ol</span>&#243;do<span> uprising.</span></p><p><span>Peller, Carter Efe, etc., for better or worse, are embodiments of ambition </span>a big FU to the cluster of excuses many intellectual creators have.</p><p><span>Peller is mocked for his English. Carter Efe is regarded by many as unattractive; worse still, he gleeks like mad. But they wake up everyday </span>executing a masterclass in volume, grit, and radical self-acceptance.</p><p><span>They are constantly evolving their formats, forcing their way into circles they&#8217;d typically be unwanted in, and doing all it takes to go international - refusing to internalize the limitations we use to decide who &#8220;belongs&#8221;.</span></p><p><span>How&#8217;s that not inspiring?</span></p><p><span>I don&#8217;t even admire what they produce. But they sure as hell demonstrate strong entrepreneurial and cultural ambition. So I think it is quite arrogant and irresponsible to call them ol</span>&#243;do<span>s. That&#8217;s our own failing.</span></p><p><span>Our mistake is treating the people who are winning the &#8216;attention economy&#8217; as evidence of intellectual decline, rather than asking why the educated class has largely abandoned the arena in which attention, culture and influence are now being produced.</span></p><p><span>Creators have a responsibility to learn how to communicate, entertain and compete for attention.</span></p><p><span>But there is also a responsibility on the people who claim to want something better.</span></p><p><span>If there are &#7885;&#768;m&#7885;&#768;w&#233;s already creating the content we say we want, let&#8217;s support them.</span></p><p><span>If the content is badly packaged, let&#8217;s give helpful feedback to help make it better.</span></p><p><span>If it is good, let&#8217;s &#8216;share aggressively&#8217;.</span></p><p><span>If it is great, let&#8217;s fund it.</span></p><p><span>Occupying cultural space is not a spectator sport.</span></p><p>We have serious work to do to make sure Nigeria eventually has an educational system capable of producing curious, rigorous and intellectually confident citizens at scale. Meanwhile, it is the responsibility of the educated class to intentionally occupy space en masse.</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://salbxt.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Seyi's Substack! 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y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>being likeable actually takes people really far. &amp; i don&#8217;t mean people-pleasing. that&#8217;s different.</p><p>likeability is about the trust &amp; comfort people feel around us. sometimes homeliness too. it&#8217;s the difference between people we tolerate &amp; people whose presence makes a room feel less heavy.</p><p>we (at least on average) gravitate toward folks who can be tactfully genuine with us. not brutally honest for sport. not performatively vulnerable. just real in a way that doesn&#8217;t demand anything back.</p><p>we like people who seem relatively content. not perfect. just not visibly at war with themselves every time we see them.</p><p>we like optimism that isn&#8217;t naive. the kind that acknowledges things are hard but doesn&#8217;t make that everyone else&#8217;s problem.</p><p>i&#8217;ve realized i can&#8217;t really be around people who are chronically cynical or irritable. both of them make the room feel smaller for me. the cynical one closes off possibility, while the irritable one closes off ease.</p><p>we admire competence too: skills, knowledge, judgment, wit&#8230; but only when it doesn&#8217;t make us feel small. because competence without generosity feels like dominance, instead of mastery.</p><p>likeability gets dismissed as shallow because we confuse it with agreeability. it&#8217;s not about being easy. it&#8217;s about being easy to be around.</p><p>&amp; that matters a lot.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[throw yourself down]]></title><description><![CDATA[the cost of being seen too early]]></description><link>https://salbxt.com/p/throw-yourself-down</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://salbxt.com/p/throw-yourself-down</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Seyi Albert]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2026 00:35:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!39P9!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff91c448f-d5e8-4e64-ae90-1db32ff177fc_1536x1024.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!39P9!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff91c448f-d5e8-4e64-ae90-1db32ff177fc_1536x1024.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!39P9!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff91c448f-d5e8-4e64-ae90-1db32ff177fc_1536x1024.png 424w, 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&#8220;throw yourself down,&#8221; it doesn&#8217;t feel like he&#8217;s really asking jesus to jump. it feels like he&#8217;s offering a dramatic entry. a debut. give them something undeniable.</p><p>&amp; he even quotes scripture to back it up. &#8220;he will command his angels concerning you, &amp; they will lift you up.&#8221;</p><p>translation: you won&#8217;t get hurt. the angels will catch you. it&#8217;s biblical. &amp; it&#8217;ll probably work.</p><p>so why does jesus say no?</p><p>i keep wondering if it&#8217;s because when you start with spectacle (before formation), you&#8217;re kind of stuck with spectacle.</p><p>if your first move is performance, every move after has to top it. (stole this one from my therapist &#128579;)</p><p>the crowd stops following the teaching &amp; just follows the show.</p><p>&amp; honestly, throwing himself down would&#8217;ve worked. instant credibility. instant crowds.</p><p>but then the mission isn&#8217;t really yours anymore. it belongs to the people who rewarded the jump. &amp; reward systems have a way of shaping what survives.</p><p>jesus says, &#8220;do not put the lord your god to the test.&#8221;</p><p>maybe what he&#8217;s saying is: i&#8217;m not here to manipulate power to secure belief. belief that has to be forced doesn&#8217;t really last.</p><p>we live in a world that kind of rewards throwing yourself down. build in public. go viral. prove your worth through metrics.</p><p>&amp; i don&#8217;t think visibility is inherently corrupt. sharing your work isn&#8217;t automatically performance.</p><p>but there&#8217;s a version of it that feels different. when you start engineering moments for the jump.</p><p>when vulnerability becomes content. when healing turns into extraction. when the thing that should&#8217;ve formed you gets packaged before it settles.</p><p>&amp; honestly? it works.</p><p>the angels catch you. the followers come. the engagement. the doors open.</p><p>because attention is a currency, &amp; whatever pays you eventually employs you.</p><p>but now you&#8217;re kind of locked in.</p><p>the crowd doesn&#8217;t really care about substance. it cares about repetition. &amp; repetition slowly teaches you who you&#8217;re allowed to be.</p><p>i&#8217;ve done this. posted things because i wanted validation more than truth.</p><p>&amp; it worked. people responded. i felt seen.</p><p>but i also felt hollow. because the version of me that got applause wasn&#8217;t the version that needed healing.</p><p>so the question isn&#8217;t &#8220;would the angels catch you?&#8221;</p><p>they probably would.</p><p>the question is: do you want to build a life that requires you to keep jumping?</p><p>jesus says no not because it wouldn&#8217;t work, but because it would likely work too well.</p><p>there&#8217;s a kind of credibility that comes slow. not invisible. just uninterested in proving itself on command.</p><p>&amp; i think that might be the kind worth building toward. not because spectacle is evil, but because some things feel too sacred to be extracted.</p><p>so yeah. maybe don&#8217;t throw yourself down.</p><p>not because you&#8217;ll fall.</p><p>but because you&#8217;ll fly on terms you didn&#8217;t choose. &amp; then landing stops being an option.</p><p>&#8212;</p><p>if i post a thirst trap tomorrow though - gb&#8217;oju o &#128538;</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[a theft of reality]]></title><description><![CDATA[what deception leaves you with]]></description><link>https://salbxt.com/p/a-theft-of-reality</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://salbxt.com/p/a-theft-of-reality</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Seyi Albert]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2026 22:33:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!-gFH!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3ff673c6-1a01-4e34-9a20-99b432099f39_1536x1024.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!-gFH!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3ff673c6-1a01-4e34-9a20-99b432099f39_1536x1024.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!-gFH!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3ff673c6-1a01-4e34-9a20-99b432099f39_1536x1024.png 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nurtured, even celebrated somewhere else. i remember the moment the math finally broke. the realization that while i was pouring myself into a connection i thought was sacred, i was actually just a character in a crowded room.</p><p>nothing about what i felt was fake. what was missing was truth.</p><p>so while one story was being honored, another was getting built without my consent.</p><p>that discovery doesn&#8217;t just hurt. it disorients you. you start questioning not just them, but your own perception. your instincts. like, did i miss signs? was i willfully blind? or was the performance just that good?</p><p>&amp; then you wonder: if i couldn&#8217;t trust what was right in front of me, what else am i getting wrong?</p><p>this is why deception corrodes more than love - it corrodes reality itself.</p><p>the real work after isn&#8217;t revenge or calling them out. it&#8217;s authorship. naming what happened accurately. restoring language to what you lived through. refusing to gaslight yourself just so other people stay comfortable.</p><p>integrity isn&#8217;t about being perfect. it&#8217;s about refusing to build intimacy (or honestly any relationship) on something you know isn&#8217;t true.</p><p>&#8212;</p><p>i&#8217;m still figuring out what this space becomes, but i think conceptually, it&#8217;ll be about naming things cleanly. </p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>